July 2011

July was a really great month for me last year. When I was working on the chronology page of this blog, I also decided to start listing the things I plan to write about and July had a ton. July really was about new things.

In the beginning of the month I decided to take a road trip to visit my family, by myself, for no special occaission. I hadn't really done that before.There was something so nice about having the freedom to stop and do what I wanted. Whether it was making a pit stop at the beach to go jet skiing, or stopping by a little factory to buy new sandals - the whole trip was on my schedule. I know my family also really appreciated me taking the time to visit them when there wasn't really a special occasion. From my Aunt to my parents to my brothers, I could tell they appreciated me finally making good on my promises to come visit.

But July wasn't only about visiting family, I had a lot of friends who were wondering when I was going to see them as well. For over a year, my friend in Washington D.C. had been asking when I was going to see them so after Elissa moved to New York, I decided to make one big East Coast trip. The fun thing about visiting people is that it's really nice being someone's guest and they're usually really excited to show you what's amazing about their city... but they have lives too so you also get a lot of time to explore on your own and I loved that. Whether it was boating or going to a baseball game with company or explore towers, memorials and museums on my own - I loved every bit of my East Coast trip.

I didn't go anywhere exotic (in fact, quite the opposite as going to SoCal is always a little like going home), but the trips were so remarkable. Whether the new thing was giving myself the freedom to take a trip on my own or or being a complete tourist in some of the biggest cities in the country, there were a lot of them. There is something special and important between finding that balance between independence, family, and friendship; between exciting new adventures and comforting old ones.

Trying to pick just a few snapshots from my adventures just reminded me how much I did that month and I can't wait to share it with you.